Amy G.
Apr 2026
Moving both of my parents into memory care 8 months ago was one of the hardest decisions I have ever had to make. I cannot visit them as often as I would like but thank goodness for the staff at Cotter House. The love, care, and communication from all the staff has given me tremendous peace of mind.<br>When we first moved them in, I was overwhelmed with worry and second guessing whether I was doing the right thing. Nurse Donna was such a gift during that time. She was understanding, comforting, and reassuring, and it was clear she had walked many families through these same heartbreaking struggles.<br>Casie has been incredibly helpful in keeping me informed when something would make things easier or better for them. She even takes the extra step of finding examples on Amazon and sending them to me, which makes it simple for me to respond quickly.<br>Gretchen has shown incredible care for my parents. She took the time to sit with my mom with a laptop to make sure she could attend an important court hearing over Zoom. She has also taken time to sit and have thoughtful, meaningful conversations with my mom regarding my dad and the many changes in mom’s life. Her willingness to listen and support my mom in processing those changes means a great deal to our family.<br>Lisa discovered that my mom had been her partner’s elementary school teacher, which created such a special connection between them. Lisa once sent me a picture of my parents visiting together which was so reassuring as I was out of town.<br>One time when I was visiting, we ran into Lisa in the hall and my mom immediately walked up and hugged her. Seeing that kind of genuine affection and trust between them eased my heart tremendously. I’m very grateful for the care and warmth Lisa shows my mom.<br>My heart goes out to anyone whose loved one has dementia and facing many difficult decisions. Thank goodness someone had recommended Cotter House to me last year. I am able to sleep at night because I see how much the staff loves my parents and because I know they will call or text me right away and vice versa, whether it is a medical issue or dad could use a new pair of slippers.









