Kenneth Morey
Dec 2024
I have seen overmedication, loss of personal movement and other freedoms, and restrictions on the ability to interact with others " AT OTHER NURSING HOMES"!! My sister has been a private paying resident in different facilities for years. The last placement she had (Somewhere else in Worcester) ended during Covid when the owners of the Dementia Facility thought that she was running out of money and called an emergency meeting to ask us to find an alternate placement for her immediately. I was Shocked!! For years on the Radio the facility represented lifetime placement, and they also guaranteed placement for life in our contract. So, with the lifetime placement in our contract and the money to continue private pay I was forced to move her. I don’t generally like to write reviews but in the 7 years since my sister was diagnosed with dementia she has been in and out of many different facilities and I have learned a few things about placement and suffered many disappointments and difficulties. My experience with Blaire House has been positive and has given me a personal sense of relief and security for the care of my sister. When you have a loved one in a nursing home, if you are anything like me, it is never going to be good enough, never going to be perfect. I try to remember I am not putting my sister in a five-star hotel, instead I am finding a new home for someone who has dementia and all the difficulties of that disease. Although Blaire house can look well worn, they are currently working on building a new facility. Sadly, covid slowed down the construction of this desperately needed nursing home. The good news is they are working on it! Blaire House is one of the very few homes that are equipped to take care of dementia diagnosed people in the Worcester Area. They are not offering what I saw as the typical dark basement dementia unit at other nursing homes. Blaire house is light and alive with movement. I have seen the staff address the specific needs of my sister with compassion and kindness from personal hygiene to assistance with eating. They have recognized that she enjoys music, so they include her in different musical related programs and one of her aides has taken to singing to her. Whenever we go in to visit it is clear that the staff know her, and she seems to recognize them. One of the sweet women who works in the kitchen makes a point of dropping by to say hello to her all the time. When you start looking for placement for a loved one who is on an anti-psychotic meds you need to communicate it to the nursing home because many nursing homes cannot dispense that type of medication! Blaire House can. My sister seems to be content at Blaire house and I am relieved to have found the right place for her. We are now moving toward another challenge with applying for Mass Health and the people at Blaire house are very helpful in dealing with the unwieldy process.






