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Quick Facts

Starting price
$4,730/mo

6% above the Tulsa median

Licensed capacity
142 residents

Oklahoma OSDH

Sales team experience
Same sales contact since community opened
Resident tenure
Some residents have lived there 5-8 years
Independence with support
Residents can still drive while receiving assistance

What Families Think

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Families and residents at The Stonehaven consistently describe a warm, close-knit community with low staff turnover and attentive, personal care. Reviewers highlight strong communication with families, engaged dining and activities staff, and a genuine sense of belonging that has kept some residents living there for five to eight years.

What reviewers praise

  • Low staff turnover, many long-tenured employees
  • Staff described as feeling like family
  • Strong communication with families noted by reviewers
  • Residents retain independence with assistance available as needed
  • Dining and activities staff praised repeatedly
  • One resident rated it best of six communities toured

AI-generated from reviews and community data.

The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care is a senior living community in Tulsa, Oklahoma offering Assisted Living and Memory Care. Amenities include Gathering / Activity Spaces, Social Activities and Housekeeping. Published pricing starts around $4,730 per month. Families rate it 4.7 out of 5 across 39 reviews.

About The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care

The Stonehaven is an assisted living and memory care community in Tulsa, Oklahoma, offering Independent Living, Assisted Living, and Memory Care. It serves residents across multiple levels of care in a single community setting.

Current and longtime residents consistently describe a warm, attentive environment where staff stability and genuine care define the experience. One family noted the staff "genuinely love what they do," while another resident of eight years spoke of team members who "truly feel like family." Families highlight strong communication from leadership, consistent activity programming, and a low staff turnover rate, factors they recognize as markers of quality care. A senior living placement specialist who has toured many Tulsa communities observed that Stonehaven "consistently stands out" for its atmosphere.

The community maintains a 4.7 out of 5 rating across 39 reviews, with families expressing deep gratitude and commitment to the place they or their loved ones call home.

Types of Care at The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care

Assisted LivingMemory Care

Amenities

Room Amenities

  • Emergency Call System
  • Private Bathroom
  • Private Rooms
  • Wheelchair Accessible

Community Amenities

  • 24-Hour Staff
  • Gathering / Activity Spaces
  • Housekeeping
  • Laundry Service
  • Medication Management
  • On-Site Nurse (RN)

Activities

  • Social Activities

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Reviews of The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care

4.7overall · 39 ratings combined

4.7★ on Google (39)

Lori Wieland

May 2026

via Google ↗ · Report

Stonehaven is truly one of my favorite communities in Tulsa. As a senior living placement specialist I’ve toured a lot of communities, and this one consistently stands out, it’s beautiful, warm, and you can just feel that the staff genuinely love what they do. I had one of those moments recently that just said it all. I was having lunch there with a client when the woman who does the laundry stopped by our table just to check on her, she knew she hadn’t been feeling well and wanted to make sure she was okay. That moment felt good. In an industry known for high turnover, Stonehaven has something truly rare, a team that stays. Dawson on the sales team has been there since the doors opened, and he started in dining services. That kind of loyalty and growth from within is almost unheard of, and it shows in the quality of care residents receive every single day. Tara and Dawson both meet every family with genuine kindness, compassion, and real expertise. If you’re searching for assisted living or memory care for someone you love, Stonehaven is absolutely worth a visit!

Lynn Everett

Feb 2026

via Google ↗ · Report

It is so difficult to entrust the care of your loved one to others, but I must say, I am MORE than happy with the staff at The Stonehaven. Whenever there is a need, either on my part or their part, communication has been excellent. Having a medical background myself, I recognize good care when I see it. It appears to me that there is not a high turnover with staff, which is so important. The activities they offer are stellar, and there is something for everyone. I would HIGHLY recommend the Stonehaven assisted living or memory care for you or your loved one to move to.

Amanda

Feb 2026

via Google ↗ · Report

The Stonehaven is a truly welcoming senior living community. Dawson, part of the sales team, was exceptionally kind and generous with his time, giving me two thorough tours so I could understand the difference between the assisted living and the memory care units. Even though my loved one ultimately wasn’t able to move in, he has continued to follow up thoughtfully over the past eight months. That level of care and consistency speaks volumes about the people there. I would highly recommend The Stonehaven to anyone exploring senior living options.

Opal Delozier

Feb 2026

via Google ↗ · Report

I am a resident here at The Stonehaven, and I am grateful to call this place my home for the past five years. It has truly been a wonderful experience. I often say that I am about 95% happy living here and that really says something, because I care deeply about this community. Every department at The Stonehaven does such a beautiful job caring for the residents. The staff truly pay attention to our needs, but more importantly, they treat us with kindness, respect, and compassion. Over time, they have become like family to me, always looking out for me and supporting me in such meaningful ways. I always have to brag on the dining team because they mean so much to this community and to me personally. I am greeted with hugs and wonderful, heartfelt service every day. My husband once lived here with me, and after he passed, every single member of the kitchen staff came to my apartment to say goodbye to him, offer their condolences, and wrap me in their care. That moment showed me just how much this community truly loves and values its residents. I cannot begin to put into words how much I love The Stonehaven, and I would recommend it to anyone looking for a warm, caring, and truly special place to live.

Margaret Terrapin

Feb 2026

via Google ↗ · Report

I am proud to share that I am a current resident here at Stonehaven, where I have had the privilege of living for the past eight years. I am deeply grateful for the remarkable staff, many of whom truly feel like family to me. It is wonderful to see that some residents and team members have been here since the very beginning, which speaks volumes about this community. I am so appreciative of the care and attention I receive, from my laundry being done beautifully and neatly, to enjoying delicious, freshly prepared meals each day, to the thoughtful and engaging activities that keep life here lively and fulfilling. I value that I am still able to drive and maintain my independence, while also having the peace of mind that assistance is always available should I ever need it. The open, clean, and vibrant atmosphere at Stonehaven was one of the most important reasons I chose to make this my home. Before deciding, I visited six different communities around Tulsa, and I can confidently say this was among the very best. If you are searching for a place for a loved one, I wholeheartedly recommend Stonehaven, it truly is a wonderful place to live!!

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Frequently Asked Questions

What types of care does The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care offer?

The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care offers Assisted Living and Memory Care.

How much does The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care cost?

Published pricing at The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care starts around $4,730 per month. Final costs depend on care needs and apartment selection; contact the community for a detailed quote.

Where is The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care located?

The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care is located at 10802 East 81st Street in Tulsa, Oklahoma.

What do families say about The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care?

The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care carries a 4.7 out of 5 rating from 39 Google reviews. Families and residents at The Stonehaven consistently describe a warm, close-knit community with low staff turnover and attentive, personal care. Reviewers highlight strong communication with families, engaged dining and activities staff, and a genuine sense of belonging that has kept some residents living there for five to eight years. Reviews on MyLivingChoice come from families who confirmed a connection to the community and appear with the reviewer's first name and last initial.

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