Best Assisted Living in Tulsa, Oklahoma
15 communities found
Tulsa lists 17 assisted living communities, all residential in setting, with an average rating of 4.4 across 16 rated communities based on 952 reviews read. Emergency call systems and medication management appear in 16 of the communities, while wheelchair access, gathering spaces, housekeeping, and social activities appear in 15.
- 15communities
- 4.4average rating, 14 rated
- 829family reviews read
The Parke Assisted Living
Tulsa, Oklahoma
4.9(143)
Assisted Living
Oxford Springs Tulsa Assisted Living
Tulsa, Oklahoma
4.9(30)
Assisted LivingIndependent Living
From $4,730/moThe Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care
Tulsa, Oklahoma
4.7(39)
Assisted LivingMemory Care
BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa
Tulsa, Oklahoma
5(8)
Assisted LivingMemory CareSkilled Nursing / Long Term Care
From $5,680/moLegend at Tulsa Hills
Tulsa, Oklahoma
4.6(54)
Assisted LivingMemory Care
Oxford Healthcare
Tulsa, Oklahoma
4.5(117)
Medicare home health · 4.0★
Chapters Living of Tulsa
Tulsa, Oklahoma
4.5(8)
Assisted LivingMemory Care
Iris Memory Care of Tulsa
Tulsa, Oklahoma
4.3(55)
Assisted LivingIndependent LivingMemory Care
From $4,195/moThe Grove at Midtown
Tulsa, Oklahoma
4.3(55)
Assisted LivingMemory CareRespite / Short-Term Care
Aberdeen Heights Assisted Living
Tulsa, Oklahoma
4.2(73)
Assisted Living
House Of Eden Residential Care
Tulsa, Oklahoma
Assisted Living
Saint Simeon's Senior Community
Tulsa, Oklahoma
4.1(48)
Assisted LivingMemory CareSkilled Nursing / Long Term Care
Best-rated assisted living in Tulsa
Ranked by family rating, weighted by how many families have reviewed each one. No community pays to appear here.
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4.9 (143 reviews)· Assisted Living
Families describe The Parke as warm and family-like, with attentive staff, good food, and engaged local ownership, though some report cleanliness lapses.
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Oxford Springs Tulsa Assisted Living
4.9 (30 reviews)· Assisted Living, Independent Living
Reviewers praise Oxford Springs Tulsa for attentive, personalized care, strong family communication, and long-tenured caregivers who know residents well.
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The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care
4.7 (39 reviews)· Assisted Living, Memory Care
Families describe The Stonehaven as close-knit with low staff turnover, attentive care, and strong communication, with some residents staying five to eight years.
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5 (8 reviews)· Assisted Living, Memory Care, Skilled Nursing / Long Term Care
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4.6 (54 reviews)· Assisted Living, Memory Care
Families describe Legend at Tulsa Hills as well-staffed and compassionate, supporting residents through health changes and coordinating outside services like hospice.
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4.5 (117 reviews)· Assisted Living, Home Health
Families report a mixed experience at Oxford Healthcare, praising caring nurses and case managers while some describe lapses in scheduling and basic care.
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4.5 (8 reviews)· Assisted Living, Memory Care
Chapters Living of Tulsa holds a 4.5 rating, though there isn't yet enough review detail to summarize specific family feedback.
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4.3 (55 reviews)· Assisted Living, Memory Care, Respite / Short-Term Care
Reviewers call The Grove at Midtown warm and family-like, with staff who know residents by name, though some cite understaffing and slow response times.
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4.3 (55 reviews)· Assisted Living, Independent Living, Memory Care
Families describe Iris Memory Care of Tulsa as home-like with close caregiver bonds, though some note staffing, food, and billing concerns vary by shift.
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Aberdeen Heights Assisted Living
4.2 (73 reviews)· Assisted Living
Families describe Aberdeen Heights as a warm, long-tenured community where many caregivers and activities staff have stayed for years and residents feel like family. At the same time, a cluster of reviews point to real…
What families say about assisted living in Tulsa
Counted across the review summaries of 15 Tulsa communities: the share whose families mention each theme.
Families most often praise caring, attentive staff, noted in 82% of the 17 communities, along with building and grounds in 65% and activities and social life in 53%. Concerns center on staff attitude and cost and billing, each cited in 47% of communities, and staffing levels or communication with families, each mentioned in 41%.
Praised most
- Caring, attentive staff 80%
- Building and grounds 60%
- Activities and social life 53%
- Cleanliness 47%
- Medical and nursing care 40%
Concerns raised
- Cost and billing 53%
- Staff attitude 47%
- Staffing levels and turnover 40%
- Communication with families 40%
“When I walk into The Grove, the staff is so welcoming. I got to visit with many Residents who were enjoying breakfast and I watched a fitness activity. The staff was so friendly and the residents seem to really enjoy spending time together. I love the energy and fun activities offered here!”
“My brother has been a resident at Tulsa Hills for 2 years. The care he has received has been outstanding. The staff is caring and helpful to him and to me. They are quick to answer questions and provide assistance. The facility is clean and inviting. Three good meals a day, activities, etc. Easy access and friendly”
“The Parke is a wonderful place to have your loved ones reside where there is comfort, excitement, & genuine care for them!”
Assisted Living in Tulsa: the figures
- •Among the 3 that publish a starting price, prices start at $4,195 a month with a median of $4,730.
- •Most common amenities: medication management (14), emergency call system (14), wheelchair accessible (13), gathering / activity spaces (13), housekeeping (13), 24-hour staff (13).
How families pay for assisted living in Oklahoma
In Oklahoma, most families start by paying privately for assisted living, memory care and independent living, often drawing on savings, retirement income and the proceeds from selling a home. Long-term care insurance, when a family has kept up a policy, can offset part of the monthly cost, though the amount and what it covers depends on the specific policy. Veterans and surviving spouses may also qualify for VA Aid and Attendance, a benefit that helps with the cost of care for those who meet the service and financial requirements.
The full picture for the state: Assisted Living in Oklahoma.
Assisted Living near Tulsa
Cities within about 35 miles with senior living inventory, and how families rate it.
| City | Communities | RatingAverage rating | Distance |
|---|---|---|---|
| Broken Arrow6.4 mi | 26 | 3.8 / 5 | 6.4 mi |
| Owasso14.4 mi | 11 | 4.1 / 5 | 14.4 mi |
| Claremore24.2 mi | 10 | 4 / 5 | 24.2 mi |
All of Oklahoma: Assisted Living in Oklahoma. Closer to home? Compare assisted living near you, sorted by distance.
About these figures
Computed on October 21, 2026 from the 15 communities listed in Tulsa, 829 public family reviews on Google, Yelp and MyLivingChoice, state licensing records and, for nursing homes, CMS Care Compare. The best-rated list ranks communities by average family rating weighted by how many families have reviewed each one, so a 4.9 from three reviews does not outrank a 4.7 from two hundred. No community pays to appear in the best-rated list or in these figures; sponsored and partner listings in the directory results are marked as such. Figures refresh as listings and reviews change; the written summary was last revised September 25, 2026.
Reading on this
Guides from MyLivingChoice that families in Tulsa ask about.
- Home Care in Oklahoma: Agencies, Medicare Home Health Ratings, and What It Costs
- Nursing Home vs. Assisted Living: Which Level of Care Does Your Loved One Actually Need?
- Signs It Is Time to Move From Home Care to Assisted Living
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Assisted Living in Tulsa: Common Questions
How many assisted living communities are in Tulsa, Oklahoma?
MyLivingChoice lists 15 assisted living communities in Tulsa, Oklahoma, each with photos, care details, and reviews from families.
How much does assisted living cost in Tulsa?
Among Tulsa communities that publish pricing, assisted living starts around $4,195/month, with an average published starting rate near $4,868/month. Final costs depend on care needs and apartment choice.
Which assisted living communities in Tulsa are rated highest?
Based on combined ratings across Google, Yelp, and MyLivingChoice reviews, top-rated options include BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa (5★, 8 ratings), The Parke Assisted Living (4.9★, 143 ratings), Oxford Springs Tulsa Assisted Living (4.9★, 30 ratings).
What types of senior care are available in Tulsa?
Beyond assisted living, Tulsa has skilled nursing / long term care (22 communities), home health (20 communities), at-home care (15 communities), independent living (14 communities), memory care (11 communities). Every option is listed with photos, reviews, and contact details.
How do families rate assisted living in Tulsa?
Families rate Tulsa assisted living communities 4.4 out of 5 on average, across 829 public Google reviews of local communities.
What do families praise, and complain about, in Tulsa assisted living communities?
Across the review summaries of 15 Tulsa communities, the most common praise is caring, attentive staff (mentioned for 80%), building and grounds (mentioned for 60%), activities and social life (mentioned for 53%). The most common concerns are cost and billing (53%), staff attitude (47%), staffing levels and turnover (40%).
Prefer to stay home?
Home care agencies serving Tulsa bring help to the house: daily living, companionship, and respite for family caregivers.
